Thomas William (Tom) Graham

A Graveside service for Thomas Graham, 60, Lawrence will be at 10:30 Thursday May 13th at Oak Hill Cemetery.

Thomas died the morning of Thursday, May 6, 2021 at his home. He was preceded in death by his parents, Donald Joseph Graham and Marilynn Terese Porter Graham and two sisters, Donna Marie Graham Wortman and Eileen Graham Matthews.

He was born on July 5, 1960 in Springfield, Missouri.

Tom spent many years in the food service industry in a variety of managerial positions. He was last employed as an Inventory Manager at Diamond J in Wichita, Kansas.

He was married to Laura Harris on July 10, 1990 in Lawrence, Kansas.

He is survived by his children Isabelle and Kevin Graham and their mother, Laura Graham, all of Lawrence, KS.

Other survivors include three sisters, Mary Kiesling, and her spouse Rob Kiesling and their children, Gage, Drake, Peyton, Carly, and Trey Kiesling all of Columbia, Missouri; Susan Graham Woehrman and her spouse Don Woehrman and their children Kelsey, Trevor, and Claire all of Kearney, Missouri and Marilyn Graham Mayberry and her spouse Brent and their children Carter and Rachael of Olathe, Kansas. Also, Justin Wortman, son of Donna and Greg Wortman of Syracuse, New York and Jay Bernard, son of Donna Wortman of Tucson, Arizona.

Tom really enjoyed collecting a variety of old and unique items. He appreciated history and particularly enjoyed collecting old media, such as records, books, magazines and pamphlets, that gave insight into the past. He enjoyed attending yard sales, estate sales and auctions. He loved all animals and will be missed by his cats, Murphy, Boo, Peanut and Lily.

The family suggests memorials to Visiting Nurses Association Hospice sent in care of the funeral home.

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Carol Ann Hastings Graham

Carol Ann Hastings Graham was born on April 4, 1928 in Pratt, Kansas to Fred E. and Florence Harkrader Hastings.  She died peacefully at home on February 15, 2018, in Lawrence, Kansas. Visitation will be held Saturday, February 24, 2018, from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, Lawrence.  A private burial will be held at Greenlawn Cemetery in Pratt, Kansas. She was married to Barney D. Graham on January 29, 1950 in Pratt, Kansas.  He preceded her in death April 17, 1993.

After graduating from Pratt High School, Carol came to the University of Kansas and was a member of Gamma Phi Beta sorority. She graduated in 1950 with a BA in Psychology. Barney and Carol lived in the Kansas City area while Barney was in Dental School.  Carol taught first grade in large classrooms of baby boomers.  After this experience, she had a lifelong interest in education and the nurturing of preschoolers and their parents.

Once Barney graduated they moved for a short time to Gardner before Barney was called to serve in the Navy in the Philippines. Carol followed with their first child, Barney Scott and they lived in Caviti City for two years where their second child, Christopher Hastings was born.  Once back in the States, they moved to Olathe, Kansas where they lived until 1970.  While living in Olathe, daughter Janice Ann was born.  During those years she was on the library board and the Johnson County Mental Health Board.

In 1963, at Barney’s urging, she returned to the University of Kansas and graduated in 1967 with a Master’s degree in Education and Counseling.

In 1970 the family moved to a farm in Paola, Kansas where Carol became adept at managing country living and all the “joys” of farm life.  She taught extended kindergarten in Paola, then went to work at a new GED Adult Education program at the Osawatomie State Hospital. She helped start the mental health center in Miami County.

Carol and Barney moved to Lawrence in 1978. She started a daytime GED Adult Education Program for the Lawrence School District and in 1985 received the Kansas award for achievement in Adult Education.

Carol retired from teaching in 1989 and became a volunteer at the Watkins Historical Museum.  Her favorite project was transcribing the Fitch family letters describing the settlement of Lawrence through Quantrill’s raid. In true Carol Graham fashion, she thought the book needed to be reprinted for the 150th anniversary of the raid, so she made phone calls until someone agreed.  It is now the book “Postmarked: Bleeding Kansas”.

Carol and Barney enjoyed traveling and she continued to travel throughout her life. She liked to play bridge and started quilting in retirement. She especially loved and appreciated living in Lawrence and the culture and diversity of a university community. Over the years she opened her home to several KU students who enriched her life with friendship, music, and an appreciation of diverse cultures.

Carol had many accomplishments and interests in life. Most obvious is her passion for education and she was learning in her last hours. That Wednesday evening she was sitting on the front row in a class about the linguistic history of the English language at the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute.

Many people have known her caring and benefitted from her wisdom. She was most proud of being a mother to three children and being very involved in the lives of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

She is survived by her children and their families: Barney and Cynthia, Rockville, MD, and their children Eboné Graham, Daniel Graham and wife Isis, and Anne Margaret Graham; Chris and Janet, Overland Park, KS, and their children Michael Graham, Matthew Graham, Colin Wakefield, Jon Wakefield, and Ben Wakefield; Janice and Walter Olker, Lawrence, and their children Andrew Olker and wife Abi, Sam Olker and wife Allie, and Abby Olker.

She is also survived by 11 great-grandchildren, and her brother, Jim Hastings and his family of Chandler, AZ.

In lieu of flowers, Carol requested memorial contributions be made to Habitat for Humanity, sent in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, 601 Indiana Street Lawrence, KS 66044.