William Kenneth Calhoun II, 71, of Lawrence, formerly of Emporia, died of cancer in his home on October 9, 2015. Ken engaged in life through his wit, wisdom, banter, and challenging conversations. He was kind and caring. His hope was that the world would be a little better for his being in it because nothing else mattered. Above all, he believed people were more important than things. He lived his beliefs until his last moment.
Ken was born September 4, 1944, in Emporia, Kan., the son of William Gunn Calhoun and Dorothy Crain Calhoun. He attended elementary schools in Emporia, graduated from Culver Military Academy in Culver, Ind., and received a BS in Business from The University of Kansas in 1966. While at The University of Kansas, he was a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity and a member of the competitive intramural volleyball team.
He married Judith Elaine Cartright of Iola, Kan. on October 16, 1964. Ken is survived by his wife, Judith; his two daughters, Stephani Calhoun Davis of Greenwood Village, Colo. and Melissa Calhoun Sottoway (Doug) of Portland, Ore.; four grandchildren, Madeleine Anne Davis, Kansas City, Mo., Caroline Calhoun Davis, Lawrence and Greenwood Village, Nolan Gunn Sottoway and Laci Cartright Sottoway of Portland.
Other survivors include two sisters: Carol Wood (Bill) of Rockville, Md. and Kay Mehrer of Stilwell, Kan.; his sister-in-law, Nancy Watts (Lee) of Carlsbad, N.M. and his loved cousins, nieces, and nephews.
After graduating from The University of Kansas, he worked for the Target Stores in Minneapolis, Minn. He then returned to Emporia to join the family-owned business, Newman’s Department Store, from 1968-1998, and continued as Secretary and President of Newman’s Inc. until 2011. He was Firm Administrator at the accounting firm of Pool & Wright from 1999-2006. He joined the Emporia Community Foundation as CEO and Secretary in 2000, retiring in 2013.
While living in Emporia, Ken had roles in numerous organizations, boards, and community efforts. He was involved in the United Way from 1973-1987, serving as Chair of the Budget Committee (1973-1977), President, Drive Chairman, Steering Committee, and Steering Committee Chair. He served as a Chamber of Commerce Director from 1974-1977 and 1996-1997, and Vice President in 1977. He was an advocate of Mainstreet and BID efforts, serving as a Board Member and President. As Project Pride Chair, he developed and raised money for street landscaping, and he developed and raised money for the White Park. He was a member of Emporia Enterprises (now Regional Development Agency) during the acquisition and development of Park III in Emporia.
Ken served on the Citizen’s National Bank Board and successor banks from 1974-1999 and on the Jones Trust Board from 1974-2006. For the Jones Foundation, he held the positions of Secretary from 1974-1994 and President from 1994-2006. He was a Director for the Newman Regional Health Foundation from 1968-1976, 1993-1996, and 2010-2013, holding the office of President in 1975-1976 and 1996-2012. He was a member of the Calhoun Foundation, serving as Secretary from 1969-1999 and President from 1999 until 2012 when it became the Calhoun Family Fund with the Emporia Community Foundation.
Ken was a member of the Emporia Country Club, served three full terms on the club board, and was President in 1974, 1998, and 2012. For the Kahola Homeowner’s Association, he served four full terms as a Director and was Treasurer from 1987-2011. During that time, he oversaw the formation of both cabin and homeowner’s associations. He was a member of the Emporia State University President’s Advisory Council from 1998-2012.
He was recognized as Man of the Week by the Emporia Gazette in 1971 and received the 2013 Lifetime Achievement Award from the Emporia Area Chamber of Commerce.
In Lawrence, he joined the Lawrence Arts Center and the New Generation Society. He was an active member of the men’s golf community at Alvamar Country Club and of a coffee group at J&S Coffee Company. He closely followed Kansas University and Emporia State University volleyball and basketball teams. He served as Finance Committee Chair of the Bella Sera Community Association.
He left a legacy of accomplishments, yet his greatest gift was leaving a lifetime of memories for his family and friends. Memorials in his honor may be sent to the Emporia Community Foundation, 527 Commercial, Suite 501, Emporia, KS 66801 and designated for the Heather Stewart Endowment Fund for Camp Wood student scholarships or for the Fund for the Future Endowment.
Memorials also may be sent to The Culver Educational Foundation at 1300 Academy Road 18, Culver, IN 46511.
Services will be held in Trinity Episcopal Church, 1011 Vermont Street, Lawrence, KS on Sunday, October 18, 2015 at 1:30 p.m., with a celebration to follow.
Online condolences may be made at rumsey-yost.com.

Judy, I am sorry for your family’s loss. I have thought of you often over the many years that have gone by.
Lives have crossed so many times, Judy. Right after I married Robert, you married Kenneth. Right after I lost Robert on Feb. 19th, you lost Kenneth on October 9. It isn’t an easy road after this many years. I will always be in Kansas, it would seem. I hope our paths cross a few more times before ours is also over. Betty Sullivan
Sorry to have to say goodbye for now old friend.Have known you since the summer of 1959 in Company 3..then the winter school.the world is a much lesser place with your passing..I will miss you greatly…Mike
Judy – so sorry to read of Ken’s passing in the Gazette. They published a lovely article regarding his long-time commitment to Emporia and the influence he had on the community. He will be remembered with much love and pride by his family and friends.
We are sad to learn of Ken’s death. You, your girls and grandchildren are in our thoughts and prayers.
Judy,
Out thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss.
John and Pam Baxter
Judy I am so sorry for your loss. Kenny was an excellent husband. Dad and individual. All of us touched by his and your life are blessed i! It seems it was yesterday we became friends but remember our song . We will be friends forever! Hugs my dearest, I always pray for you and yours. Patsy
Judy and family,
We are so sorry about your loss. Ken was a wonderful addition to the Lawrence community and to our Alvamar golf group. Thanks for sharing him with us during the past few years. He will be sorely missed, but remembered warmly, by all of us. Condolences from all of us.
Mark and Sandy Praeger
Judy and family… So sorry to hear of Ken’s passing, it is a big loss for you and the communities. Thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
Dick and Sarah Rees.
Judy, I am so sorry for your loss. I am also sorry that I didn’t know your husband. He must have been an amazing man. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Judy, I am so saddened to learn of Ken’s passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Carol
Judy, I am so sorry to hear of Kenny’s passing. I remember him fondly. God’s blessings for you and your family.
Judy Hereford Kissell
Judy…so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. Praying for you and your family. Miss you so much!
You and your daughters have my deepest sympathy. I pray for comfort and peace in the days ahead for you.
Judy and Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Judy – Along with so many others, I am so sorry and saddened over Ken’s passing. I send my condolences to you and your daughters. I had the good fortune to assist Ken at the ECF for a few years before you moved. I think Paul’s remarks in the Gazette hit the spot, especially about his commitment and his wit! I knew Ken since he was a kid (in fact, I knew his grandfather W.K. – my Grandfather moved to Emporia to work at Newman’s – and his dad too of course). Ken’s commitment to community projects made Emporia a better community. It was always a pleasure to work with him on many projects. Jim Lowther
I got to know Ken through the Culver reunions. He always had a smile and a chuckle. He’ll be sorely missed.
Mark Wilson
Kenny, a great friend for 57 years will be missed beyond words. Upon relocating to Emporia for retirement Ken was the first person at our door, welcoming us “back home”. Wonderful memories include being neighbors at Lake Kahola, hanging out with Ken and Phil in Jr. High, receiving notes about life at Culver, the list goes on. Corkey and I send our most heartfelt condolences to dearest Judy and family.
Robert and Corkey Forrester
We are sad for the family, but we know that you will be comforted by your many old friends in Emporia and other places, and by your many new friends in Lawrence. May you have contentment and peace and the love of those you love.
A Culver classmate, I grew to appreciate Ken more and more every 5 years at our reunions. We’ll be sure to raise a glass to him in ’17. My condolences, Judy…he was a remarkable man.
Judy, Melissa, and Stephanie….
My heart aches for all of you. I have known Ken since I was a little girl. He has always been like an uncle to me. I worked for him at Newmans and worked beside him on the Lake Kahola Board. He taught me to be a better board member (and tried to help me tame my temper on the same). I have missed him since he left the lake and when I see his old boat I imagine him looking over the side and looking out. The lake will never be the same with out him. I love him and all of you….you are always welcome here….one of the places he loved most. Shara
Judy,
From our many 5 year reunions since graduating from Culver, to the frequent “in-between mini’s”, Ken was always one of the highlights of our get-togethers. His sense of humor and witty exchanges kept all of us smiling. I can’t express my sorrow at his passing, but please know that my thought and prayers will be with you during this time, and in the future. The light may be lost, but the memories will never fade.
Judy, Steph, Missy and families,
I’m so sorry to hear of Ken’s passing. I’d known Ken since before grade school, but hadn’t kept up with him in recent years. I remember seeing Ken around Emporia when I was still there, and all the good times we had with the EAC tornadoes in the 70’s. Condolences and prayers to you all.
Marshall Ellis
I am so very sorry to learn of Ken’s passing. He was a fixture in our community foundation golf foursome (along with Chip and Vern) and I am glad I got to play with him one last time this past summer. I am still recovering from some of the needles he was constantly sticking in me! He was a fun and insightful guy whom I will miss very much.
Judy, Steph, Missy and families,
Our condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you all. May your memories comfort you with your loss and may God grant you peace and grace. Ken was such a great guy who made a big difference to our world.
We will miss Kenny, I met him at JandS Coffee shop and evertbody down there are sorry for your loss.
Sure sorry to hear about Kenny. He was a GOOD friend to our family. He will be missed!
Judy, I’m so sorry to hear about Ken. You are so often on my mind, and my thoughts are especially with you now at this difficult time. You and Ken are still part of the Emporia community; both of you left such a positive legacy here. Holding you in my heart and sending sympathy and love to you. Very best thoughts, Ellen
Judy. Pat and I were so sorry to hear of Kenny’s passing. We had a great time visiting with Kenny and you at our 50th high school reunion and of course I knew Kenny from the time we lived next door to you and Kenny in Lawrence during Kenny and my senior year at KU. Please accept our sincere condolences. John and Pat Conderman