Donald R. Caillouet

Don was a man who loved God, people and living life. He seldom met a stranger without learning their name, hometown and something that was important to them. Don was born in Texarkana, TX, on November 1, 1941 to Louis and Helen Houteling Caillouet. His brother Joe and sisters Peggy and Ellen Ann completed the family. The family moved around a lot, following their father’s jobs in construction. Don went to school in Texico, New Mexico, and graduated high school there. He moved to Los Angeles, CA, to attend college at Long Beach City College where he learned the electrical trade. He had just graduated when he received a letter from President Johnson inviting him to become a member of the U.S. Army. He was drafted on his 24th birthday. Don enjoyed the Army and remained in the guard for 10 years, being discharged with the rank of Staff Sgt. After working in the electrical trade for a while, Don discovered that he was good at selling, so he began a successful career selling water wells and pumps for industrial, municipal, irrigation and some domestic wells. He began working for Henkle Drilling in Garden City, KS, in 1989, and worked there until moving to Lawrence in 2001 to work for Layne-Christenson in Kansas City. During these working years, Don was a member of the Kansas Ground Water Association, holding several positions and eventually being named President of the Board. During that time, he was instrumental in establishing the current licensing and CEU legislation enacted in Kansas. He also held a Texas Drilling License and master drilling and master installer licenses. In 2013, Don was awarded special recognition from the Missouri Water Conference for outstanding work and support.

Midway through his life, Don accepted Jesus Christ and began a life of helping others. He was a member of First United Methodist Church in Lawrence and also volunteered with Crown Ministries as a financial counselor, receiving the Crowning Achievement Award in 2008. Don cared about each person he worked with and felt excitement for the successes or gave encouragement if the going got tough.

Don was a devoted family man. In 1997 he was organizing a trip with some singles in Southwest Kansas. He needed more transportation so when he met a blonde widow with a Suburban, he persuaded her to come along and bring her car. That was his wife, Coralee Ann Marshall Caillouet, better known as Corky. There are many stories about their courtship and marriage, but suffice it to say that they have been married for almost 19 years and it has been glorious. He enjoyed his children and grandchildren: Dawn Smith, husband Randy and girls Whitney and Erica; Brian Brown and girls, Samantha and Balee; Donnie Caillouet; JaQué Singleton and husband, Stu; Marylee Ramsay; Keri Griffin and children, Devon, wife Rhyan (parents of Don’s first great grandson, Raylan, born March 4, 2016), Alycia, Marshall and Cora. He is also survived by his sister Peggy; brothers-in-law George Judah and John Marshall and his wife, Ronda, and several nephews and nieces.

Don liked to dance, fish, build and fly RC Airplanes, and watch “his” squirrels. He also enjoyed singing, and directed a church choir at one time. Don was an avid reader who knew the Bible forward and backward. It was spending time with others that he enjoyed the most. Memorials made in his name to the First United Methodist Church will be given to local missions, as Don believed that service was an essential part of Christ’s plan, and there is much need. Memorials may also be made in Don’s name to a charity of the donor’s choice. Funeral services will be held on April 2, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. at the First United Methodist Church, 946 Vermont St, Lawrence. Don had a special affinity with Marisco’s Restaurant and their staff. Please join the family there at 4821 W 6th Street from 1:30 to 3:30 for a dessert buffet and fellowship to celebrate Don’s life one more time, shouting “Amen” all the way.

Messages & Condolences

From DJ Flummerfelt Agency...

Don was a long time client of ours and also had a smile and kind word for all. We will miss him a lot. God bless Coralee..you are in our thoughts and prayers.

From Donna M. Bell...

Corky, I’m truly saddened to learn of your loss. Through you I got to know Don and learn what a special man he was. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.

From Bill Elkins...

I was blessed to have known Don through the Jayhawk Model Masters, where we became good friends. Ill miss him greatly!

From Grace Hubbel...

Corky, know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

From Big O Tires...

Don was a customer here for many years, we always enjoyed the time we had to visit with him. It was a pleasure to get to know him. Our condolences to the family. He will be missed.

Cory, Steve, and Devon

From The Millers—Rachel, Luke, Deborah, Stephen....

Dear Corky and Don:
Neighbors. What to say at this time…not sure—yet need to say something. First, we loved Don, and we love you Corky. I know that Don thought he had more time and so did we; but as most of us realize…life can throw us some pretty tough stuff. We all wanted a lot more time together but God called Don home, and I completely trust that God loves Don and knows him even more than we do.

Don has been such a great person to know and to be around for almost ten years. Don has blessed and touched each person in our family in such a supportive and impactful way. With Deb, it has probably been with politics and the witty daily texts, along with the many crazy stories and situations they have shared together. With me, it has been about having a best friend and being able to talk about life, faith and family. With our son and daughter, Luke and Rachel—well, Don has been like a Grandpa to both of the kids (one that they never had). He has positively guided and supported both of the kids in their young lives, and they are very much grieving at this time too.

Thankful. Corky and Don, we are so grateful to have had lots of Friday night date-nights with you! Corky and Don, please know that Deb and I have relished every Friday night meal that we’ve ever spent together at our fine favorite restaurants around Lawrence, Kansas. I think Don voted for Mariscos almost every time. And secondly, we also will cherish the many plays/shows that we’ve shared together at Theatre Lawrence. It was fun and a great time.

It sure won’t be the same without Don around…it won’t at all—but (knowing a little bit about Don, like I do) Don would want us to keep on living life to its fullest and celebrating our lives together in faith, hope and love…and so we must go on—and be about doing that. Of course we will tell stories about Don and Don will always be with us in our thoughts and prayers.

Again, thank You Corky and Don for being our most loving neighbors! Please know that we love you so much at this time.

Peace and Love,
The Millers—Rachel, Luke, Deborah, Stephen.

From Lisa...

Corky,
My thought and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief and mourning.

Lisa Johnston

From Dan Devlin and Marcia Ackerman...

Corky,

We are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Let us know if we can help in anyway.

From Linda Motter...

Corky, I am so sorry to about your husband passing, I have you in my thoughts and prayers. Linda Motter

From Stephen Schmitt...

Corky, As a young man I needed men like Don in my life. He was; a great teacher, he led by example, his complaints were based with both truth and humor, he tied morality and ethics into each minute of our time. Most of all he was a man of wit. His perespective and his GOD gifted vocabulary made us all anticiapte his next word. I was fortunate enough to recently reconnect with my friend. I will miss him, but I know there is a coffee table in Heaven where Don is keeping the Angels entertained. Stephen Schmitt

From Steve Bayer...

Corky, I just heard that Don went home to be with the Lord. Marshall and I are leaving on an international missions trip with Cru’s The Jesus film within the hour. I’ll try connect with you upon our return but I did want you to know I’ll be praying for you in the days ahead. Don played a HUGE part in our walk with the Lord training us to be Crown Coaches and inspiring us to train and counsel countless people. He’s a major part of why we are in FamilyLife ministry today. We love you & Don-we cherish those memories! Love Steve & Lila Bayer

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