Aaron Nicholas Calovich

Aaron Nicholas Calovich’s memorial service will be held Wednesday, Dec. 28 at 3 p.m., Liberty Hall, 644 Massachusetts, followed by a 5:30 p.m. dinner at the Six Mile Chophouse and Tavern, 4931 W 6th Street, Lawrence, KS. Aaron died Dec. 3 due to injuries from an accident.

Born Dec. 27, 1977 in Denver, CO, Aaron grew up in Lawrence, where he was a student at Pickney Elementary School, Central Junior High School, and Lawrence High School. He graduated from Johnson County Community College, and attended the University of Kansas, majoring in biology, which grew out of his life-long love of nature.

As a kid, Aaron loved the Kansas Area Watershed Council gatherings, bird-watching (especially raptors), swimming and diving, camping, canoeing, and hiking, and immersing himself in the natural world. He played soccer as a kid, and softball when he was older. As he grew up, he fell in love with downhill skiing, especially the more challenging slopes in the Rockies. He also reveled in fishing at Clinton Reservoir and Lone Star Lake, going dancing (he had his own unique style), and especially cooking.

Aaron was born to feed people. He started cooking at age two when he would sit on the kitchen counter to stir pancake batter, and he went on to become one of the best chefs, entirely self-taught, in the region. He worked at Shalor’s (Eldridge House), RND Corner, and recently, the Six Mile Chophouse, all in Lawrence; JJ’s Restaurant, the Drum Room (President Hotel), and La Bodega in Kansas City; and the Holiday Inn in Dillon, CO. Friends, family, and customers regularly praised him for the “best food ever,” and marveled at his magic ability to turn simple ingredients into memorable meals.

Aaron was deeply beloved for his big and open heart. A good listener with the most beautiful smile, he was a man of unusual and expansive compassion. Aaron recently took a year off from being a chef to live with and care for his father who was suffering from Alzheimer’s. He was extremely close to his big brother Paul, and he adored children, particularly his nephews, nieces, and his cousins. He was devoted to his maternal grandparents and would regularly watch KU basketball, Kansas City Chiefs, and Kansas City Royals games with his grandpa in between cooking for his grandparents and mowing their lawn. When he was younger, he, Paul and their cousins would play ball for hours in his Grandpa and Grandma Calovich’s yard while the family watched from the porch. His family – including his circle of friends gathered over many years – meant the world to him.

Aaron is survived by his mother Joy deMaranville and stepfather Frank Norman of Lawrence; his father Paul Calovich, Sr., Oskaloosa; his stepmother Pam Calovich, Kansas City, MO.; his brother Paul Calovich, Jr., and Paul’s children Mazzy and Zada Calovich of Trinidad, CA.; his brother Brett Calovich, Peoria, AZ; his stepsister Lesley Couch, her husband Rob Couch, and their children Timothy, Nicholas, and Julia, Buckner, MO.; and his grandparents Albia and Janet DeMaranville of Lawrence. He will also be lovingly remembered by many aunts and uncles: Susan and Gary Frager, Lawrence; Al and Holly DeMaranville, Seattle; Jean Anne Calovich Sullivan, Tonganoxie; Dan Calovich, Edwardsville; Nick and Marsha Calovich, Tonganoxie; Matt Calovich, Princeton; Jim and Renee Calovich, Gardner; Joan Calovich Wood and David Wood, Tonganoxie; Christine Calovich Burns, Tonganoxie; Bill and Carmen Calovich, Kirbyville, MO.; Mark and Sherri Calovich, Hollister, MO.; Jenny Norman, Austin, TX; and Sue and Bruce Donaldson, Houston, TX; and many beloved cousins. He is preceded in death by his paternal grandparents Nick and Marie Calovich, and his aunt DeeDee Calovich.

Memorial donations can be sent to the “Aaron Calovich Memorial Fund,” First State Bank and Trust, P. O. 219, 1525 Highway 24-40, Tonganoxie, KS 66086 (donations can also be dropped off at the Basehor, Lawrence, Perry, Tonganoxie, or Kansas City, Kansas bank branches), or Just Food in memory of Aaron Calovich through the website www.justfoodks.org or at 1000 E. 11th St., Lawrence, KS 66046.

Messages & Condolences

From Julie Campbell...

“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”
– Eskimo saying
Joy, Frank, and family, our deepest sympathies. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

From Kristine Sheridan...

Joy and family, I remember Aaron as a kid with Paul through their friendship with my daughter, Rachael. My heart is with you and all who know and love Aaron. I know there are no words to truly make such unfathomable grief easier. May you find comfort in being together. ❤

From F. Taylor...

To The Calovich Family,
So sorry for your loss. May, “the God of all comfort,” be with you and your family during this time of sorrow.
2 Corinthians 1:3. With Peace & Loving-Kindness,

From Stanci March and family...

What an amazingly kind, gentle, and generous soul. Aaron always stood out in this way, and it is how I will always remember him. Comfort and strength to all that were closest to him in this incredibly difficult time.

From Denise Douglas...

Dear Calovich family and friends,
I want to extend my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Please be assured of God’s enduring love for you, His concern with your well-being, and His willingness to help you endure this difficult time. (1 Peter 5:7) May God’s promise at Revelation 21:4; and Acts 24:15 provide your family comfort in the days and weeks to come. For further encouragement please visit the website JW.ORG under the topic “When a Loved One Dies.”

From Cathy King...

Joy and Frank we send our deepest condolences. Although I had only one opportunity to meet Aaron, I was struck by his generous and kind nature. I feel sure he warmed and brightened many hearts.

From Laura & Joe Fix...

Aaron and Paul played with my children growing up on Mississippi Street. Both boys were fun, nice, always happy.
We are so sorry to hear of Aaron’s death. I know the family has many many good memories to help you though this time,
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

From Laura Ramberg...

Dear Joy Sending you and your family much love

From Chris Drinkhouse...

Joy and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love and light

From Stan Slaughter...

I didn’t know Aaron as an adult but remember him from those early KAW gatherings. My heart is suddenly very heavy sensing this loss of such a treasure of a young man. Joy, I’m so sorry.

From Linda Gwaltney...

Joy and family, I am very sorry for the pain you are feeling right now and I know that Aaron knew he was loved.

From Karen Hummel...

Heartfelt condolences Joy, Frank and Paul and the rest of your family. Thinking of you a lot, embraced by love and light.

From Sofie Grace...

I knew Aaron when we were children and played at the KAW camps, and played as kids in Lawrence. He was always kind and compassionate. A very nice person to be around, I have nothing but fond memories of him. Saddened to hear of his sudden passing. So much love to Joy, and Frank, to his family and friends.

From Kelley Hall Elliott...

Sending my deepest condolences to Aaron’s family and friends! He was an amazing, fun sincere person! Thankful to call him a friend

From Ruth Ann Guess...

Joy and Frank, what a beautiful obituary! Such a handsome young man. May you feel my love and prayers. “It is the nature of grace always to fill spaces that have been empty.” Goethe

From Suzanne Richman...

To a young man’s spirit and his family, I am sending you love and hugs across the land from the trees of Vermont. (This is Suzanne who used to attend KAW events decades ago.)

From watowa...

At those times when I feel–what seems to be, the loss of a friend too soon. I try to remind myself of ‘the ascendancy of a soul through lifetimes of experience’. One lifes’ experiences need to surrender before ascending to the next coil. I think that is how I prefer to remember young Aaron Calovich
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From Anna Palos Jackson...

My fondest memories of Aaron are our Pinckney and Central Junior High days. He loved nature so much. I will never forget the birds of prey rap he wrote in fourth grade! He also frequently convinced his crew to just play outside! We jumped creeks and built dams near Naismith Park. My heart is with you, Joy,Frank and Paul and all of those who loved this special human!

From Marty Olson...

Peace to all of you.

From Khalila Binns...

Dear Joy, my heart and thoughts are with you. I remember Aaron from the play The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe, at the Bratman’s. So sad…

From Sharon Burch...

Joy and family: I’m so sorry that Aaron has left his body. I can’t even begin to imagine what grief and heartache you are feeling. I want you to know that you are in my heart and thoughts and I’m sending you love.

From Matt Tait...

Absolutely beautiful. This captured every ounce of Aaron’s one-of-a-kind spirit and soul. RIP, dear friend.

From Mark Purcell...

Aaron was one of the most genuinely kind people i have ever known. Not an evil bone in his body.. He is missed tremendously. Prayers for family and friends. ❤

From Teri lemos...

A true happy spirit,he always had that smile on his face and even when things went wrong he was positive,some great memories I have of your son and some great food Enjoyed as I had the pleasure to work with him at JJ’S and he to is are family member and will truly be missed by all of us,i am sure those angels put those wings around him embraced him and kept him warm and loved,we shall always have our memories no one can ever take those from us,Rest in peace my friend,watch over me from the heavens, you are one of my guardian angles now as I have many,Will see you in my dreams

From Ralph & Peggy Anderson...

We are so sorry to hear if your family’s loss, Aaron sounds like a wonderful young man & person??

From Sarah Parrott...

I never met Aaron but read the obituary and he sounds like he was a good man. I’m cousin to Pam Calovich, Lesley Couch and Brett Calovich and am so sorry for this devastating loss.

From Juan Jalil...

It’s still hard for me to accept that I’ll never hear you call me “shwany” again. From the very first time I met you, you were kind and open to me. I’ll never forget you brother.

From Lanell Finneran...

Joy and family: We are so very saddened to learn of Aaron’s death. Our hearts go out to you. If there is anything we can do (since we live just around the corner) let us know.
Lanell & Whipp

From Louise Phillips...

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

From Claudia Elkins...

Joy, I am so sad to hear about the death of your precious son Aaron. I fondly remember the trip we all took to Colorado back in 1980 when your boys were just toddlers. I send you my love and prayers.

From Alice Lieberman and Tom McDonald...

Joy, we are so sorry for your inestimable loss. Please know that we are thinking of you during these very tough days.

From Jennifer Copeland...

My sincere condolences. I met Aaron through mutual friends in college. I always found him to be a sweet, genuine friend. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

From Kenna Tait...

Joy & family, Words cannot express the deep sadness we feel hearing of the passing of Aaron. I will always remember his gentle soul and all the fun times the boys had. Hold tight to all your wonderful memories,
Wishing you peace and comfort.

From Joy Lominska...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I did not see Aaron much as an adult, and will always remember him as a lively, smart little boy. Please know that friends are thinking of you and offering support.

From Tim Doering...

Aaron will be my friend until the day I die. As I proceed toward that eventuality, I am diminished.

From Jessica Walker...

I never met anyone who lived the golden rule better than Aaron. He was loved dearly by all who had the pleasure to know him and he will be greatly missed.

From Sara March...

Aaron was a loving, beautiful soul. He adored his family and friends, and was liked by everyone who knew him. He will be missed tremendously. I’m so sorry for his passing, but so grateful to have been in his life.

From James Roberts...

One of the most kindest, gentle souls I have ever met. see you on the other side my friend.

From Jon Moore...

Too soon for a man of his caliber. Always showed love. Im truly sad. I’ll see you again soon my friend.

From Bill Parker...

Aaron was one of the elite class of men that made you feel at ease at all times. His ability to bring peace and love was unmatched. Rest In Peace my friend.

From Shannon Moore...

I didn’t get a chance to see Aaron very often, when I did it’s like no time had passed. The world lost a good one.

From Kirk Landau...

I never saw Aaron without a smile on his face. My prayers and hugs go out to all of his friends and family.

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