Emil William Heck Jr

Services for Emil William Heck, Jr., 96, Lawrence, will be at 10 a.m. Friday at Trinity Lutheran Church. Burial will be in Memorial Park Cemetery.

Mr. Heck died Saturday, May 27, 2017, at Lawrence Presbyterian Manor.

He was born July 9, 1920, on the family farm just north of Lawrence, the son of Emil W. and Wilhelmina Muiller Heck. He attended White Elementary School in North Lawrence and graduated from Liberty Memorial High School in 1938. He also attended Lawrence Business College.

Emil was a longtime farmer and stockman, widely known and respected, who started work on the family farm at an early age. Following high school, where he excelled as a member of the Future Farmers of America, he joined his father in a farming partnership. They raised, at various times on their Kaw Valley farmland, potatoes, corn, wheat, soybeans, sorghum, alfalfa, and brome. They also raised beef cattle on their pastureland in Jefferson County, site today of the Rim Rock Farm cross country course. Emil retired from farming in 1978.

Mr. Heck was baptized in St. Paul German Lutheran Church in 1921. Shortly thereafter, the family transferred to First English Lutheran Church, later to become Trinity Lutheran. Emil remained a member of Trinity Lutheran the rest of his life, serving the church in a variety of capacities including vice president of the Church Council, Head Greeter, Youth Ministry sponsor, and assisting in preparation of communion services. At the time of his death, he was believed to be the oldest active member of the congregation.

Mr. Heck was also an active participant in the civic activities of his community. He was a member of the school board for Burnett Elementary School and instrumental in organizing the consolidation of several rural schools in Grant Township to form Grant School District No. 100. He was elected and served a four-year term on the Lawrence Unified School District No. 497 Board of Education. He served multiple terms on the Board of Directors of the Douglas County Kaw Drainage District, was past president of the Sertoma Club, served on the board of the Douglas County Historical Society and was a member of the Lawrence Chamber of Commerce, to name but a few of his contributions.

Emil married Elizabeth (Bette) Rosanna Quigley on October 21, 1950, in Gower, Missouri. She survives of the home. Other survivors include daughters Linda (Darrell) Bennett of Leawood, Susan (Robert) Holcomb of Lenexa, sons Michael (Elizabeth) Heck of Lawrence, Mark Heck of Leawood, 10 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren.

Possessed of a quick wit, Emil will be remembered by family and friends for his keen sense of humor. He was kind, honest, generous, patient, dependable, slow to anger and quick to forgive. He taught by example that any task worth doing was worth doing well.

The family will receive visitors at the Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. on Thursday. The family suggests memorials to Trinity Lutheran Church, sent in care of the funeral home. Online condolences may be sent at www.rumsey-yost.com.

Messages & Condolences

From Jeff Scannell...

I am so sorry for your loss. Emil was a true gentleman in every sense of the word.

From Doris Pratt...

Bette & family, So sorry to read of the death of Emil. Know he will be missed by many. What a great long life he achieved. My sympathy to all of you.

From Laura King...

You all are in our hearts!

Laura King, Charlie Hagen, Charlie & Kate King Hagen

From Debbie Mills Shafer...

Bette Mike Susan Linda Mark
So sorry for ur loss. You are in my families thoughts and prayers

From Murl and Carla Westheffer, Murl Jr., Michael, And Chase...

To the Heck family,
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Emil represented the true definition of a gentleman and always exhibited such elegance and class. After losing Wanda this past year, something that helped us through was holding wonderful memories of her close and remembering the good times. May the love of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time.
Our warmest thoughts and prayers,
The Westheffer Family
Murl and Carla, Murl Jr., Michael, and Chase

From Loren Taylor...

Please accept my deepest sympathy. The generosity and warm hospitality that Emil and Bette always extended are among my favorite memories, as are my friendships with Mike, Mark, Linda and Susan. I am sorry for your loss and will keep your entire family in my thoughts and prayers.

From Lora...

My sincere condolences to the Heck family. I hope knowing that God cares for you and sees your pain brings you comfort during this difficult time. May you also find comfort in God’s promise to resurrect our loved ones to life on a paradise earth. (John 5:28, Revelation 21:3 & 4) My deepest sympathy to you all.

From Monica Hunn Stavig...

Dear Susan and Heck family,
Growing up at Trinity, Emil was a bright light that always shined for His Lord and Savior. He always had nice things to say about people. I guess he stuck to the if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything. ?. I always enjoyed speaking to Emil and Bette after church while growing up. May your sorrows be comforted in the resurrection, and knowing you will be joined again in Paradise. My God’s peace comfort you until that time.

From Greg Hack...

I am so sorry for your loss. Emil was a wonderful man, with a great family, and I always felt welcomed by him and Bette.

From Lisa Romain...

Susan and family, I didn’t know your dad, but who you are and what family means to you is surely his legacy. Blessings to your mom, your family and extended family as you celebrate a good dad and good man’s life. Love, Lisa and Pete Romain

From Rose Mary murguia...

Sorry for your loss I will keep your family in my prayers

From Patricia A Reuter...

My heartfelt condolences to Susan Holcomb family and all the Heck family.

From Nancy Guest...

Heartfelt condolences and sympathy to the family of Mr. Heck. I have fond memories ? of visits to the farm with Susan and Mr.& Mrs. Heck. They were always kind and generous. Great Legacy. Peace, Love ❤ and Comfort to you all. Quentin and Nancy Guest

From Katie Martin...

Betty and family, Emil was such a nice guy. So sorry for your loss.

From Nancy Mckee...

Thinking about the Heck Family and feeling fortunate to have spent time with Emil and Betty in Grant township. Love to you all -The McKees

From Lynn Segebrecht...

We are so very sorry for your family. Please know you all are in our thought and prayers at this difficult time.
With much love,
Lynn and Steve Segebrecht

From Rhonda ( Kampschroeder) Ables...

Betty so sorry for your loss. Prayer for your family.

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