Leora Fay “Tolli” Courtney, 90 passed away peacefully on July 14 in Lawrence, Kansas. Born to Harry and Jewell (Whiteman) Carson in Sedalia, Missouri on March 15, 1927, Tolli spent most of her childhood there. She attended Northwest Missouri State Teachers College in Maryville, where she met her future husband, James D. Courtney. They were married on June 8, 1947, in Creston, Iowa, at a ceremony officiated by her brother-in-law. Anxious to settle their first apartment, located in Maryville, they cut short their honeymoon automobile trip through Iowa, Missouri and Kansas. After Jay (as he was known) graduated, the couple lived briefly in Reserve, Kansas, then Falls City, Nebraska, before moving to Effingham, Kansas, where they would live for several years. While there, Tolli was a correspondent writing for the Atchison Globe and she authored “The First Hundred Years – Effingham Kansas – 1868-1968.” Tolli and Jay moved to Manhattan, Kansas in 1968 with the younger four of their eight children; the older four were in college at the time. While there, Tolli took classes at Kansas State University and student taught at Manhattan Junior High School to complete her college degree. She nursed her husband at home through cancer for three years before his death in 1975, after which she enjoyed a career with Manhattan Mutual Life Insurance Company until they relocated out-of-state. She then moved to Lawrence, Kansas to work for the University of Kansas School of Education from which she eventually retired.
Tolli was known for her lemon bars and chocolate fudge, the latter of which she attributed to Mamie Eisenhower’s recipe. A voracious reader of books, magazines and recipes, she completed crossword puzzles in ink, wrote personal letters in cursive, and would play games and read with her grandchildren for hours on end. Slow to adapt to new technology, she nonetheless mastered online solitaire and watching Netflix on her computer. Friends and family helped grow Tolli’s elephant collection to include critters from around the country and world and she cherished every gift she was ever given.
Tolli is survived by her eight children:
Roger, Overland Park
Scott (Eileen Koutelas), Glenwood Springs, CO
Clifford, Deland, FL
Clinton (Mary Jane), Mounds View, MN
Kathleen (John) Grieve, Wise River, MT
Karen (Don) Messner, Kirkland, WA
Larry (Karen), Overland Park
Roxy (Scott) Johanning, Berryton
Tolli is also survived by 17 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren, her sister, Alice Isbell, Kansas City, KS, and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband, parents, and siblings Dorothy “Vera” Rains, Thresa, Clinton “Bub,” ”Lafe Clifford “Buzzy,” and Donald Mac “Jim” Carson.
Please join the family to share stories, memories, laughter, and each other’s company at a CELEBRATION OF LIFE OPEN HOUSE:
Saturday, July 22 from 2:30-5:00
Oak Room at the Community Center
Leawood City Hall
4800 Town Center Drive
Leawood, KS 66211
A shared prayer and family remembrances will begin at 3:30.
Memorial donations may be made to:
ACCHS Alumni Association Scholarship Foundation, Inc.
417 Main St.
PO Box 209
Effingham, Kansas 66023.
Please note for the Jay and Tolli Courtney Scholarship.
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