Robert (Joseph) Pilgrim left his family and loved ones suddenly on Sunday, February 4th. He is survived by his wife, Sarah, his mother, father, brothers, sister and his wife’s brothers and family.
(Joe) served his country faithfully on the USS Nimitz during the Iraq war, was an outstanding law student at Washburn Law instrumental in initiating a veteran’s court, and was currently serving as an Assistant DA in Shawnee County.
He leaves behind the love of his life, Sarah, his beloved rescue pets, and family and friends that dearly loved him.
Memorials in his name may be made to “Pawsitive Tails Dog Rescue” (in care of 913-626-0950 – www.pawsitivetailskc.org) Contact is Crystal Paugh Tucker
Thoughts and prayers to Joes family. Joe was an incredible light in the office. He was such a joy. Very kind and funny. I enjoyed everyday getting to see what fun socks he had on. Joe was helpful in many ways and blessed anyone who came in contact with him. He will be missed dearly. I am grateful to be able to call him a co worker and friend. May he rest easy knowing he made a difference in many lives. Until we meet again dear friend.
Although we did not know Joe personally, we know Sarah and what a wonderful support and husband Joe was for her. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Joe was so kind and funny! He came up to my office everyday to show me his funny socks and his crazy theories on Godzilla!! I really enjoyed getting to know him and meet him. He will be dearly missed! He is in my prayers!
Joe,
What an amazing human you are and how lucky we were that you shared your light and love with us. To say I will miss you, doesn’t even begin to cover it. You were a true friend, brother, mentor, and so much more for me and others. I promise I will never forget all the wonderful times we shared and I vow to make as many of those as I can with Sarah and all those left to remember you. I love you always and always my dear friend ❤️
I met and served with Joe in the Navy. I’m not exaggerating when I say some of my fondest memories are the times h and I raised hell. I did everything with Joe when we were in Washington. He was always a good friend and always checking in to make sure I was okay. I miss him already. I’m so sorry Sarah.
Dear cousin Sarah and family.
It is with great sadness we share with you and family the passing of one of our family. We all enjoyed our meeting and conversations with Joe. His sense of humour and just being Joe. His achievements at Law School and his proud achievement of obtaining his attorney badge. Also his advocacy for Veterans which I as a Veteran of Australia commend him most sincerely for also I thank him for his service. I will miss my conversations with Joe one in particular re his wanting to baptise me in the creek behind your mum and dad’s place. He will be sadly missed by the Love of his life Sarah his family and friends and his wonderful dogs. We all enjoyed the time and conversations and you being one of our family. RIP mate. Enjoy a coolie or two for us. Christine, Peter, Jason and Jocelyn.
Dearest Sarah,
Joe was a wonderful sweet man, a fine lawyer, and a perfect match for you. He will be missed. You are in our thoughts and our hearts. We love you.
Gayle and Al
Sending my sincere condolences and warmest wishes of compassion to Sarah and the Pilgrim family. May the comfort of those around you ease this terrible time of loss.
Love-Lindsay Miller(USC social work grad)
Love you Joe may god grant your family peace and understanding during this trying time never met such a kind spirit may god bless you brother much love -Double
Joe was one of my favorite people to work with. His socks never failed to put a smile on our faces and it was obvious how deeply he cared about all of his involvements. I will miss him dearly.
I am so sorry Sarah. I remember Joe and how your eyes would light up when you talked about him. Bless his sweet heart and yours, Sarah. Much love, Donna
I personally did not have the opportunity to know Joe. However, I am familiar with Sarah, an exceptional woman with endless talent. People like Sarah possess inherent goodness, with a select few around her contributing to her bright and shining presence. I do not doubt that Joe is one of the main sources that nurtured her overall goodness, from which so many (like myself) benefit.
With love and deep admiration for Joe and Sarah
Sarah,im very saddened to hear this news.
I really miss seeing the both of you in the store.
My heart goes out to you my friend,I know how much you loved each other.😢
Joe was a one of a kind person. He had a huge heart and brought joy to so many people. He will be deeply missed!
Love – from Aunt Shaundi who was 10yrs old in 1976 when you were born, “little Joey”. Been crying all day because I never got to know you and be an Aunt to you. You were always in my heart and mind, though, and it tickled me to no end to see how accomplished you became in your life work. It is true that only the good die young. The way I’ve got it figured is earth is a training planet and apparently, you graduated again! My heart grieves for your dear wife, as well as Patty and David & Justin and I pray healing for all of your family. Missing a fine young man I never got to know, love you, honey…………..Aunt Shaundi Kay Chambers
I extend my deepest condolences, Joe was an amazing person. With a one of a kind personality and sense of humor. Joe even though we always joked and laughed and even talked crap and laughed about each other i am glad that our crew brought us together to meet. You will truly be missed buddy. May heaven open its gates and grant you your wings. Sarah and the family are in my prayers. Rest peacefully brother #xCavForLife 💚🖤🤍💔🕊️
To Sarah and Family,
We love you Sarah. We will be praying for God’s peace and comfort for you and your family!
Love Always,
Pastor Keith & Kiana Battle
There are no words that can describe how wrong it is that we, and this world, lost someone like Joe. His love for his wife, family, friends, crew, and animals are unparalleled. All he ever wanted, was to help people. He was always the first to ask how you were doing and what he could do to make it better, ever if you were already great. “Where we going and what are we doing?” was his go to, and he was always “Down to Clown.” He married my sister, but he was my Brother. I loved him always and will miss him forever.
You were an amazing man and loving husband to Sarah. You will be missed by so many. You accomplished so many amazing things in your life. As a father, you made me proud.
Love u Joe may u rest in peace you will be missed buddy 😔