Brad Allen Parker, age 67, a beloved carpenter, metal and woodworker, musician, and friend to many, passed away on September 21, 2024. Born in Coffeyville, Kansas on August 1, 1957, to Dolores Richardson Parker and Ediston Lindley Parker. Brad moved to Lawrence, Kansas, shortly after his birth. Although he lived in various states over the years with his sister, brother-in-law, and mother, Dolores Parker, Lawrence remained his true home—a place he always returned to.
Life presented its challenges for Brad, including bouts with cancer that ultimately claimed his life. Through it all, he embodied kindness, generosity, and a profound faith in God. He deeply missed his mother, Dolores, who passed away a few years ago. He is survived by his sister, Lindy Parker Cady, her husband Ed, and their children Madeline, Aileen, Jessi, and Kyle, as well as his grandniece Bryn, all of whom were always in his thoughts and prayers.
Brad was a gifted metal artist and woodworker, traveling across the country to showcase his craft at art fairs. His intricate ironwork and carpentry reflected his exceptional skill and passion. An accomplished guitarist, he loved making music with friends and refurbishing guitars in his spare time.
Throughout his life, Brad cultivated deep friendships, grounded in his strong work ethic and genuine warmth. He was a familiar face at local coffee shops, where he delighted in sharing stories. He worked with Steve and Cheryl Standing, helping to renovate old houses, and was remembered by Steve as someone who had “a willingness to work on anything” with a positive outlook. As an independent contractor for his dear friend Stephen Ruttinger, both Stephen and Eunice praised his dedication, noting, “Everything Brad did was to the highest standard. It might have taken a little longer, but it was always done well. He could fix anything.”
Brad never met a stranger, easily forming friendships with neighbors wherever he lived. He cherished the Old West Lawrence community in recent years and was known for his special affection for all creatures, especially squirrels, birds, and rabbits. He would often spoil them with their favorite treats, including bakery cookies, and fed them daily when his health allowed. They, too, will miss him dearly.
Brad’s legacy of kindness, artistry, and community will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His big heart touched countless lives, and he leaves behind a world that is better for having had him in it.
His resting place will be Oak Hill Cemetery. There will not be a service at this time. In his memory, notice creatures in nature, enjoy homemade artful objects and show kindness and generosity of spirit to the people you meet.
I knew Brad in my grade school days-his sister Lindy & I were best friends! He will be missed by so many-rest in peace Brad
Brad, my sweet cousin, gone much too soon. Although we were never in the same place very many times, after we grew up, my memories are fond ones of when we were. He is missed!
So sorry to hear this. I knew Brad in my yearly years of life. He would stop by the Jaimez house and listen to my family play music. He was such a wonderful person. God Bless and my he RIP.
Louis Jaimez
Sending my condolences on the loss of a good brother to you, Lindy, and a good friend to others. He sounds like a special person, whom I, too, wish I’d met. He and Dee are finally together!
Always my little brother with the big heart. *Lindy
So sorry for your loss Brad was such a kind soul and you took wonderful care of him.
Brad was a special person who helped Steve and I so much over the years! He will be greatly missed!
So sorry for your brother’s passing, Lindy. I wish I had gotten the chance to meet him. I am keeping you and the family in my thoughts.