Carey Sue Graber

Carey Sue Graber

Artist, business owner, mother, daughter, wife and sister, Carey Sue Graber was born April 13, 1963 in Wichita, KS. She grew up in Wichita and Memphis, Tennessee. Carey passed away on January 1, 2025 after battling cancer.

Carey was a creator. Her profession as a graphic designer and branding innovator required it, but it never stopped there. She always felt compelled to create -whether in her home studio, in her son Travis’ playroom, in her garden or in the kitchen. This was a direct legacy from her grandmother, Juanita Rains, who relentlessly conquered a myriad of art and craft media, and from her writer-painter mother, Arlene Rains Graber.

Carey’s formal art training and education was at the University of Kansas, where she earned a BFA in Visual Communications in 1985. Her professional career was launched at Bob Neace Graphic Design in Wichita. Carey remained friends with her early mentor throughout her life. During these years in Wichita, Carey co-founded the Wichita Chapter of the American Institute of Graphic Artists (AIGA), which continues today.

After working in Kansas City for a short time, around 1990 Carey became Senior Designer at Art & Sign in Lawrence, Kansas. This city and the surrounding prairie became Carey’s home for the rest of her life. After marrying, co-parenting two wonderful teens and starting a family of their own, Carey and then husband, Bob Treanor, moved to an 1860 farm house near Lecompton, Kansas. It was surrounded by 160 acres, 46 of which were native Tallgrass prairie, resplendent with Big Bluestem. Tallgrass Studios was born in this oasis in 2000. An office was carved out of the front room of the farmhouse where Monday morning strategy sessions started each week. During the first few years of the company, Carey also worked as an Adjunct Professor and Director of The Arts Group at the University of Kansas.

Tallgrass Studios quickly grew, creating brands and implementing social-marketing campaigns – of which Carey was especially proud. They tackled the topics of safe drinking among college students, mental-health issues in public schools, parent education in raising teens and end-of-life care issues.

In 2007, Carey became sole owner of Tallgrass Studios and moved back to Lawrence where the company eventually grew into its current location as one of the first tenants of the Warehouse Arts District. The open, lofty studio also became a lively stop on Lawrence’s Final Friday Arts Walk, introducing and supporting regional art accompanied by live spirited music, dancing, food and wine.

For the past fifteen years, Carey has lived and loved and created with fellow artist and soul mate, Stacy Bowman, alongside Pip and Josie, their two mixed Miniature Pinschers. Carey met Stacy – where many of the best conversations take place – on the front patio of Free State Brewery. It wasn’t long before Carey commissioned one of Stacy’s beautiful ceramic fountains. Over the next fifteen years, they formed a deeply spiritual and romantic bond, serving as muse to one another, creating art separately and together. Fittingly, the last art show at Tallgrass Studios was Luminous, featuring stunning art glass mosaic lamps made by the couple.

Of all of Carey’s creations, her greatest was son Travis Treanor, 28 years old of Nashville. Following his parents example, Travis was a child artist who spent hours drawing until the call of ice hockey took over at age eight. For the next ten years, Carey and family traveled to Kansas City for Travis’ practices and games. There was no more passionate cheerleader, nor fiercer critic than Carey – whether yelling for her son or at the ref! Travis grew into an amazing adult, now working as a hospitality recruiter and still getting on the ice whenever possible. Carey is at peace knowing he has found a supportive, intelligent life partner in fiancé, Anelise Sedlock.

Carey’s strength and spirit will always be with Travis, Anelise and Stacy, along with her mother, Arlene Rains Graber (Wichita), sisters, Shan Jabara (Wichita) and Penny Graber (Lawrence), nephew, Palmer Farrow, step-children, Rachel Treanor (Overland Park) and Joseph Treanor (Ardmore, OK). Carey also leaves her aunt and uncle, Mary and David O’Brien and cousins Kamila Magill VanderDyssel (Jeff), Brent Magill (Stephanie), Stefanie Magill Leniszewski (Steve), Colin O’Brien (Jennifer) and their families in the Seattle, Washington area and their sibling Molly (Jeff) Long of Overland Park, as well as cousins Lauren Rains Reinbold (Mark) of San Diego, Kristen Rains Hillis (John) Oklahoma City, Scott Rains (Julie) of Wichita and Brandi Biggs of Newalla, OK. Carey cherished her talented staff at Tallgrass Studios: Megan Miller, Shelly Albrecht, Jaylynn Miller and Jeralyn Ballard. She was also fortunate to have the most caring and adventurous of friends, whose love and support have been such a blessing (you know who you are.)

Carey’s family appreciates the loving care and guidance Carey and family received from Douglas County Visiting Nurses hospice services. Any donations, in lieu of flowers, can be made to them at https://www.flipcause.com/secure/cause_pdetails/NDE4NDc= or Lawrence Humane Society: https://lawrencehumane.org/donate/ or Van Go youth arts-based social service agency https://www.van-go.org/donate . A private family service is being held and a celebration of life will be held in the spring.

Messages & Condolences

From Hannah McCauley...

Carey was a second mother to me for a good part of my childhood. She was spunky, vibrant, and very, very fun. Carey taught me how to cuss — her only rule was that I use my new words “correctly”. I still carry that perfect f***ing message with me to this day. Sending all my love to Travis and all those close to her at the end of her life.

From Amy Vickery...

I’ll always remember her beautiful face, funny laugh and happy spirit. What a pleasure it was to have known her since meeting as little kids. Carey made the world a better place. Godspeed His love and peace to her family.

From Don and Linda Edman...

Travis, Anelise and Stacy,
We are so very sorry for your loss. May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort in the weeks to come. Enjoy the beautiful legacy she has left in her art.
Take care of each other.

From John Woodbury...

My family lived across the street from your family on Norfolk for a number of years.Has been a while since my parents lived there and have had conversations with you but I wanted to reach out and let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.God Bless Carey.

From Barry R Morgan...

One of the (if not THE) brightest, creative, fun and bravest individuals I’ve ever known. Met in our neighborhood and attended the same Jr. and Sr. High. Always an artist and even in a few of the same art classes. What a terrific smile and soul to match. Will always remember her fondly.

From Gina Hoffman...

I adored Carey, she was the coolest of the cool. My heart goes out to all the family, especially Travis. She was so proud of you. Fly high sister. ❤️

From KAREN Rau...

From the moment I met Cary and Penny at the Rockborough apartments bu stop in 7th grade Carey has been my closest and best friend. I remember those accents. These two adorable girls with their very thick southern accents and their pep and enthusiasm, I had no idea at that time what kind of friendship we would have. It spanned 50 years. I am so lucky to have live the
majority of my life with Carey in it. She was truly one of kind. Beautiful, creative, funny as hell and just a great friend. I am going to miss you my friend. I love you. Much love to the family at this time and always.

From Bob Neace...

Carey worked for me a couple of years. She was a force to reckon with as we disagreed on how to run a design business. Carey left to seek more design latitude in Kansas City. After starting her own studio, I received a very long letter from Carey apologizing for the way she left and recognizing that I was right, as she was now seeing business from the top down. She was very smart. Very humble. It is an honor to have known her, mentored her, be her friend and be mentioned in her life story. The creative marketing community has lost a perfect representative of our craft, graphic design. Rest in peace my young friend.

From Tawny Hiatt...

I’m blessed for knowing Carey & her gift of genuineness & authenticity. I always admired her devil may care combined with genuine embrace of everyone- including me- the sole queer/lesbian (at the time) mom to join a bunco group who on paper so different than I. She was & will always be a bright light in my experience & so deeply sad her light has gone out.

From Stacey Louise VanHouten...

I met Carey at Lawrence Community Nursery School when our children attended. She was a vocal advocate for her son, Travis, and a great mom who enjoyed participating in his early education at LCNS. She joined a Bunch group that was started there and our group, the Bunco Babes shared many an evening and many adventures together over the years. Carey was a fabulous hostess, entertaining us and our families at her farmhouse. She was smart, funny, empathetic and always ready with an ear yo listen and a voice to support her friends. I will miss her light.

From Linda Ransopher Gehlbach...

Carey will be missed so much by all her friends and family, especially here in Lawrence. She was a great and dear friend to me, and to all of our friends who played bunco together for many years. She was a lovely person who could talk to anyone she met, and I witnessed that so many times over the years. Carey was so genuine! And Carey was a great hang. She knew so much about birds, plants and gardening, and LOVED the arts; music, and especially sculptures and paintings. I first met Carey at LCNS (Little Red Schoolhouse!) where our then young children attended preschool. Such wonderful memories of those days and the many vacations, parties, and adventures we shared.
I will take walks at our favorite local hiking spots, Clinton Lake and the Baker Wetlands, and I will miss her so very much. Especially her laughter and joyful, caring friendship. Peace, endless gratitude and much love to her family; Arlene, Shan, and Penny, husband Stacy, and her beloved son Travis.

From Sue Nanninga...

Sending my condolences. Carey was one in a million. She really did make me feel like my work in the field of education was appreciated. She will be greatly missed. A truly tragic loss. My life was better for knowing her.

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