Judith Crossfield, 85, passed away April 23, 2026 at Bridgehaven Memory Care, Lawrence Kansas. She was born April 22, 1941 in Chicago Illinois to Maude and Nick Demos. After her mother‘s death, she came to Lawrence at age 2 with her brother John and was raised by her aunt and uncle, Blanche and Edgar Mosley.
She had a long career in the title insurance industry and was also active in many civic organizations during her working years. At her retirement she was Vice President of First American Title in Lawrence.
She loved reading and was a frequent patron of our local library. She loved her friends and family, sarcastic humor, the beach, Neil Diamond, and a cold diet Dr Pepper.
She is survived by her children, Laurie Sommer, Michele Salvini and Kevin Sommer, Grandchildren, Lauren Ballard (Caleb), Brandon Salvini, Maggie Salvini, Emma Salvini, and Sean Coffman and great grandchildren Mae Ballard and Mack Ballard.
She is preceded in death by her brother, John Demos, sister, Mary Coffelt and son-in-law Hiram Salvini.
Per her wishes, no services are planned.
We would like to express our gratitude for the love and care received from all the wonderful staff at Bridgehaven Memory Care.
“The connections we make in this course of life – maybe that’s what heaven is” – Fred Rogers
Judy,
I can’t even begin to count how many times I was at your house hanging out with Kevin over the years. I still have vivid memories of sitting in the family room with the glow of your oil lamp while your Neil Diamond records played in the background. Those memories have stayed with me all these years.
Your home was always such a peaceful place for me, especially during some very difficult and chaotic times in my life growing up. When things felt unsettled at home with my parents, being at your house brought me comfort.
No matter how much time had passed, I always enjoyed talking with you on the phone whenever I’d call trying to track Kevin down.
You were truly special to me, Judy, and it deeply saddens me to know you’ve passed. Thank you for being a special person in my life.
I believe that I met Judy when I lived in Topeka and was friends with MARK marker and the his family, Judy was always wonderful very nice witty always had a pleasant smile and something nice to say. She was a very good person. I will miss her. My heart goes out to her family, and I will never forget her.
I worked with Judy for many years at First American Title and we become close friends. She was a wonderful boss and a great friend. Rest in peace dear friend.
Judy was always a trusted professional in Lawrence Real Estate. She took care of all of us so many times. May she rest in peace.
My sincere condolences to Judy’s children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. You were blessed to have a mother who loved you unconditionally. May she rest in peace.
To the family. Sorry for your loss. I met Judy through a mutual acquaintance. Nice lady.