Joyce Elaine Huntsinger (Hubbard)

Joyce Elaine Huntsinger (Hubbard) passed away on June 13, 2026, at the age of 86.

Mom was born on April 5, 1940 in Joplin, Missouri to LaVeta and Bert Hubbard. The family moved to Wichita, KS in her early childhood.

During her childhood, she enjoyed family trips to the lake, where she and her older brother, David, canoed and fished. As a young teen, she displayed her innate caregiving nature by doting on her much younger sister, Cindy.

At the age of 14, Mom was thrilled to see Elvis perform from floor seats at the Wichita Forum; but at that time, her eyes were set on a certain cross-town athlete, Phil Huntsinger. Displaying her tenacity at an early age, Mom managed to convince her parents to allow her to transfer to his high school. She caught Dad’s eye (in his words) walking up the bleachers in her navy blue skirt. Mom and Dad dated throughout high school with Mom being the calm, sweet balance to Dad’s outgoing, fun loving personality. They married on Aug. 8, 1958 when Mom was 18.

They started a family immediately. Before Mom’s 21st birthday, she was caring for two little girls, Jo and Jill, while Dad was attending college, playing football & baseball and working nights to provide for the young family. After Dad got in trouble in class for falling asleep, Mom, with her seemingly meager personality, marched into the professor’s office and gave him a verbal lashing (as the story goes). And so began her lifelong advocacy for her family.

The family moved to Colorado with a 3rd daughter, Julie, and then to Virginia for the arrival of their fourth daughter, Jenny. Mom was the ultimate caregiver. Her house teemed with neighborhood kids and stray pets and she was infamous for sewing homemade matching outfits for her girls throughout their childhood…much to the oldest daughter’s dismay.

The marquee summer of our family life was the summer of 1968. Dad was pursuing his doctorate at the University of Tennessee and decided it would be fun for the family to camp in the Smoky Mountains an entire summer. Mom, as always, was game for Dad’s wild ideas. Dad drove to Knoxville for school daily while Mom was solo in the mountains with four daughters, age 8, 6, 4 and 1 1/2. Unfazed, Mom always spoke of that summer as the best summer. We fished, swam in the lake, played in the woods, and bathed in the lake all while mom tried to keep us away from black bears. The local Knoxville newspaper featured our family in a story and apparently, Mom scrubbed us raw and curled our hair for the newspaper photo so we would appear civilized.

The family moved to Lawrence in 1973 when Dad accepted a teaching position at The University of Kansas. During their 60+ years in the Lawrence area, Mom and Dad pursued several business ventures including Joy’s Upholstery, the marina at Douglas County State Lake (which really meant they had access to boats and bait so they could fish all summer), and in 1977, they founded The Trading Post, a weekly shopper’s guide. The Trading Post became a local staple for buying and selling goods and services in the Lawrence area for 32 years. Despite having no newspaper experience, Mom performed every job imaginable to publish the paper each week including sales, graphic design and bookkeeping while teaching herself various tech iterations from the 1977 Compugraphic machines to the early Macs of the mid 80’s.

Family was central to Mom’s life. Over the years, there were endless family gatherings, vacations, and celebrations, which rarely involved some of the family, but most often involved all of the family. Mom and Dad supported their daughters and later grandkids in their many extracurricular activities taking them all over the state, country and even overseas. Mom and Dad were notorious for always being the first to arrive in the gym or on the field and also the last to leave. They were such staples at these events, that between their kids’ and grandkids’ teams, there were countless teammates who also depended on seeing Joy and Phil (or “Papa and Grandma”) in the stands.

In the early 90’s, Mom and Dad bought a one bedroom cabin at Table Rock Lake and spent every summer weekend there for decades enjoying fishing, lake serenity, and the ever growing family weekends. Although the family has grown to 29, the cabin still only has one bedroom, and it continues to be occupied every summer weekend.

Mom, at her core, was an extremely empathetic caretaker of animals, both wild and domestic. She took in multiple strays and saved countless wild animals at their home in rural Baldwin. When her worry for feral kittens during a brutally cold January was too much to bear, she collected them with the plan to nurse them until they could be adopted. It surprised no-one, that when the time came, adoption wasn’t an option. Mom, subsequently, had a cat entourage everywhere she went in the house for the remainder of her life at home. We daughters got a little salty about this, as we were clearly, and not so subtly, replaced by the 4 kittens.

Throughout her life, Mom had Dad by her side. It’s impossible to think of her without thinking of them. Mom was only 14 when she first set her eyes on Dad, and he proved to be an eternal caring, outgoing, fun loving, ornery partner with a fiercely loyal commitment to her. Dad modeled this lifelong endearment with unwavering, selfless care of Mom in the final years of her life.

Mom leaves a legacy of kids, grandkids and great grandkids who save spiders, live trap mice, and laugh when broken down on the side of the highway. She was light-hearted about the things many take too seriously, and deeply devoted to the things that really matter: family, hard work, fierce loyalty, empathy for animals and kids, laughter, and embracing a full, well lived life.

We are so fortunate to have her as our mom,
Jo, Jill, Julie and Jen

Mom is survived by her husband of nearly 68 years, Phil Huntsinger, four daughters: Jo Huntsinger, Jill Brown (Dan Brown), Julie Francis (Jon Francis), and Jenny Reid (Clayton Reid), 9 grandkids: Eric Brown (Kelsey Brown), Emily Hess (Rodney Hess), Taylor Brown, Tucker Brown (Grace Sunnell), Davis Reid (Kacey Eis), Evan Reid (Sami Marks), Tess Reid, Kyle Francis, Elaina Francis and 7 great grandchildren: Payten Brown, Adelyn Brown, Brinley Brown, Grayson Brown, Dylann Hess, Logann Hess and Sage Reid, a sister, Cindy Vadakin (Gordon Vadakin), and several nieces and nephews

We would like to offer our sincere appreciation and gratitude to the CNAs, Med Techs, and staff of Cedarhurst of Lawrence as well as to the nursing staff at LMH who provided care above and beyond expectations, not only for mom, but also for our entire extended family. The compassionate care they provide is exceptional.

To honor Mom’s lifelong empathy and care of animals, the family requests memorial donations be made to The Lawrence Humane Society in honor of Joy Huntsinger.

A Celebration of Life is planned for Monday, June 15, 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm at the home of Mike and Terri Broadwell, 992 E. 1600 Road, Baldwin, KS 66006.

Messages & Condolences

From Karen Abernathy...

I am so sorry to hear of Joy’s passing. When Gordon and I moved to Lawrence over 30 years ago, Joy and Phil were welcoming and became fast friends. I will miss her. My condolences to Phil and your family.

From Sarah Wamsley...

My heart is so heavy to hear of your mom’s passing. She was the epitome of love; kind , caring, thoughtful, supportive….I could go on. You were always welcome at the Huntsinger home. I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

From Judy Wernsman...

Dear Jo, losing your Mom is very hard. We have to remember they are just here on loan-then we have to let them go home. May she rest in peace! Sending blessings & prayers to you & your family!

From Maria sanden...

Joe, you’re in my mind. So very sorry for your loss.

From Leon Greene...

I have known Joy since 1975. Every time that I met Joy she had a smile and always so friendly. I knew that she work hard on a number of jobs and never slowed down. She will be missed!

From Teresa Grieb...

So enjoyed her kindness and hospitality. Geo loved to visit to fish and check out the llamas. What a wonderful adventure it was for him!

From Holly Kracl...

Sending love and prayers to all. I have fond memories of your mom.

From Anne Hutt...

What a lovely tribute to your mom. I have fond memories of many days spent playing at the Huntsinger home. There were lots of sleepovers and dinners where we were always made to feel welcome. I’m so sorry for your loss and am sending hugs to all your family.

From Laurie Reilly Bristol...

Jenny and family sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Hearts are prayers go out to you and your family.

From Linda Poe...

My heart goes out to Phil and his family. I’ve known Joy since I was about a young girl. I know she was Phil’s love of his life. Joy stood by him through thick and thin. My cousin Phil was so precious to Joy. God got a very special Angel 😇. Joy doesn’t have to suffer anymore 🙏. Love Your Cousin.

From Shannon Brown Calahan...

I will always remember your Mom as one of the kindest and most gracious people I’ve ever known. She always made me feel welcome whenever I tagged along to the many family gatherings at the Huntsinger home over the years. In honor and memory of your Mom, Ms. Joy, please accept my deepest sympathy.

From Cindy Roach...

I haven’t seen your parents in many years, but I will always remember the kindness, genuine interest and always a smile! You have so many wonderful memories and love to give you strength during this difficult time.

From Susan Davis...

What a nice obituary, but..lol you forgot to mention her years in Harrisonburg.lol. The great memories I had with the Huntsingers. My deepest sympathy for you all. Many hugs and prayers.

From Karen Georgeson Burk...

I’m so sorry to hear of Joy’s passing. Your mom’s sunshine and love will live on in all of you for generations. Such a great legacy she built and left. Nothing but great, if not hilarious, memories I have of her. Hugs to Phil and the Huntsinger clan.

From Kelly (Collister) Leid...

What an absolutely beautiful and fitting tribute to Mrs. Huntsinger! So sorry for the loss of an amazing woman and matriarch, I recall reading the newspaper article of the family living in the woods in our youth! Holding all of my memories of Huntsinger adventures close and thinking of you all during this difficult time. Sending love and comforting thoughts your way-

From Sheryl Saathoff...

May you look back on the precious memories and find peace in knowing that your mom raised an amazing family. Sheryl and Larry Saathoff

From Patrick Green...

So sorry to hear about your mom. Thinking of you.

From Dana Bart...

Such a beautiful story of your mom’s exceptional life! It was always a pleasure talking with her during our years in the volleyball bleachers! I’m so sorry for your loss, but so grateful for the legacy she has left. Love and hugs to all of you!

From Judy Hubbard...

I’m so sorry we no longer have Joy, but she’s no longer in pain and
OH MY GOD how many wonderful memories she left with each of us. Joy and Phil were wonderful fun loving parents and their children are proof of that!!! I will miss her but will cherish the time she was with us.
THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES JOY !!!!!

From Jodie Engelken...

What an awesome life story!!!! She sure lived it well!! Shame raised a wonderful family that we have been blessed to know! She will be sorely missed and I am so sorry!!!!! Lots of love to you all!!!

From TaLana Erikson...

What an awesome life!! Her and Phil’s legacy shines through their children,grandchildren, and great grandchildren. What few times I got to spend with her, she was always a welcoming and loving person. Prayers and love to the family.

From Janis Luetters...

So sorry to hear about this sweet lady. May she rest in peace in our Heavenly Father’s arms. Thinking of you all. Chuck & Janis Luetters

From Diannia Affalter...

I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. What a beautiful life she enjoyed. I’m sending love, prayers and comfort during this difficult time

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