Norma Lee Kolodziejski

Norma Lee “Dump” Kolodziejski, born on April 11, 1943, in Cumberland, Maryland, passed away on March 10, 2024, in Lawrence, Kansas, at the age of 80. Norma was a beloved mother and friend, always willing to help those in need. She cherished her family and provided unwavering support to them throughout her life.

Norma is survived by her three children: Keith Kolodziejski of South River, NJ, Kevin Kolodziejski of North Brunswick, NJ, and Kim Miele (husband Sal) of Lawrence, KS. She dedicated the past 10+ years of her life helping to raise three of her grandchildren: Anthony Miele of Chattanooga, TN, Nicole Miele of Ottawa, KS, and the youngest, Gia Miele. Norma’s first grandchild, Joshua Kolodziejski of Franklin, MA, brought her immense joy on becoming a grandmother. She took care of him with love.

In addition to her children and grandchildren, Norma is survived by her sister, Donna Hendrickson, and two brothers, Fred and Rick Hendrickson, all residing in Maryland. She was predeceased by her older brother, Harvey “Butch” Hendrickson, whom she held dear to her heart.

Private family services will be held at a later date for Norma in Maryland to honor and remember her life. May she rest in peace.

Davin Gregory Kerr

A Visitation for Davin Kerr, 18 of Lawrence, will be from 6-8 pm, on March 19, 2024, at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. Graveside Inurnment will be 1 pm, Wednesday, March 20, 2024, at Oak Hill Cemetery.

Davin passed away Wednesday March 6th at Overland Park Regional Medical Center.

He was born March 16th, 2005, in Lawrence Kansas, the son of Brandy Kerr. He attended Lawrence High School.

Davin liked music, skateboarding, anime, and gaming with people all over the world. Davin enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. Davin loved his emotional support dog Luna very much. Davin was a very intelligent young man and loved God.

He is survived by his sister Nevaeh Brimer, his father Scott Brimer, his “NaNa” Pam Henderson, and his three cousins Carter, Alec and Raelynn and his two Aunts Krystal Kerr and Jamie Henderson and great grandma Judy Gragg.

Memorial contributions may be made to Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, P.O. Box 1260 Lawrence, Kansas 66044.

Shirley Ann Petersen

Shirley Ann Petersen passed away peacefully at the age of 75 on March 9th, 2024 surrounded by her loving family. Visitation will be held at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home in Lawrence on Friday, March 15th, from 10:00-11:00 AM with Funeral Services immediately following in the Chapel.

“When someone you love becomes a memory, their memory becomes a treasure” – Unknown

On September 30th, 1948, Shirley was born to Henry and Dorothy Blakley at St. Francis Hospital in Topeka, Kansas. She graduated from Mayetta high school in 1966. After high school, Shirley worked at Hallmark Cards, as a housewife, a softball umpire, a brewista at Coffee Lovers, and a dog groomer at Canine Coiffures. This is where she met her best friend, Ruth Tessendorf. After retiring from Burlington Coat Factory, she enjoyed watching and supporting her grandkids while they played a variety of sports, participated in the school band, sang in the school choir and competed in activities like debate. She loved working crossword puzzles, putting large jigsaw puzzles together (some taking up to 10 months to complete), working on color by number pages,
reading all types of books (especially mysteries), doing crafts with yarn, shopping for and with the grandkids and walking around Walmart and Dollar General (DG’s as she called it).

Shirley enjoyed volunteering with the American Kennel Club, Sunflower Kennel Club and several other clubs in the area to help with dog show events. She absolutely loved all dogs; size, color or breed did not matter. From prized hunting dogs with her husband, to sheep dogs, corgis, yorkies, boston terriers, golden retrievers and every mutt in between, Shirley welcomed and made a home for all of them. She also loved and spoiled all of her grandpuppies when given the opportunity. Shirley loved volunteering her time with the De Soto High School football team every Friday afternoon. She took pride in setting up and passing out meals to the players prior to the football game. She always wanted to make sure those boys were well fed.

On March 30th, 1974, Shirley met the man of her dreams when she was set up on a blind date by family and friends. Just over five months later, on September 7th, 1974, Duane Petersen and Shirley Blakley were married at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Holton, Kansas and enjoyed 49 wonderful years together. They had four children, Jason Lee Petersen, Kelley Jo Grammer (Tracy Grammer), Jaime Lee Werner (Jeff Werner), and Andrea Lynn Vogts (David Vogts). Their three daughters blessed them with nine grandchildren: Lenley Bonham, Thomas Bonham, Jasen Grammer, Logan Werner, Serenity Vogts, Tessa Werner, Carson Vogts, Haylee Vogts, Piper Vogts and one great-granddaughter: Baylor Bonham.

Shirley loved to travel. Once she and Duane were married, they traveled all over the United States and into Canada. Most of their destinations included Mountains, Historical sites, Scenic Views like the Grand Canyon and lots of windshield time, since they rarely flew. The last trip they took together led them to the San Diego Zoo, Hoover Dam and multiple National Parks. Shirley always wanted to see Niagara Falls and now, she has the perfect vantage point.

She was known to everyone as a kind, generous woman who had the best smile. She never knew a stranger and welcomed everyone into her home. Although Shirley only had four biological children, all of her children’s friends knew her as “mom”. Shirley loved to sing and when she wasn’t singing, she was humming. Family and friends would often find her dancing or swaying while making supper, as she hummed to a song only she could hear. She had the most beautiful voice.

Shirley was preceded in death by her parents, Henry and Dorothy Blakley; three of her sisters, Donna Duncan, Judy Blakley and Marie Beasterfield; and her son Jason Petersen. She is survived by her husband, Duane Petersen of Leavenworth, KS; their three daughters, Kelley Grammer of Shawnee, KS, Jaime Werner of Ozawkie, KS, and Andrea Vogts of Kansas City, KS; and her sister Betty Mayer of Bentonville AR.

Flowers can be sent to Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home or Donations can be made to Jefferson County Humane Society. Online condolences may be sent to www.rumsey-yost.com

Brenda Kay Sweeney

Brenda died peacefully with her family by her side on Tuesday, March 5th, 2024, at Lawrence Memorial Hospital after battling cancer for a few short months. She was born January 22, 1958, in Lawrence, the daughter of Don and Vera Flora.

She graduated from Lawrence High School in 1976. After graduating high school Brenda had many jobs and met many friends along the way. She worked at Hallmark Cards in her earlier years before working at Sallie Mae as a claims adjuster for several years. Sallie Mae transitioned to DST and BFDS and she continued working there until leaving around 2019. Since then, she had been working at Housekeeping Unlimited during her partial retirement. She met so many great people and loved all her coworkers and clients.

Brenda married Steve Worley in June of 1980 and they divorced in 1993. She then married Bob on July 9th, 2009 after years of memories together as they were high school sweethearts.

Brenda was always known to be extremely hardworking, loving, and had a certain spiciness to her personality that everyone loved. She enjoyed spending time with her family for the holidays and the 4th of July was always her favorite. She would wear her special hat and always had a blast watching the fireworks late into the evening. She enjoyed her gardening and making salsa, as well as, her flower beds every spring. She always had a good time with everything she did and was the self proclaimed life of the party! She lived for her kids and especially her grandkids who she loved more than anything. She was the best mom and Mimi. She was a good friend to everyone she met along her journey.

She is survived by her loving husband Bob Sweeney, daughter Shannon Worley, and son Dallas Worley, step son and daughter, Kyle and Lindsey, grandchildren Riley, Peyton, Olivia, Kingston, and Kru, all of Lawrence, sister Debbie and brother in law Rick, of Olathe, KS, brother Larry of Ocala, FL, and father Don, of Lawrence. She was preceded in death by her mother Vera.

Visitation for Brenda Sweeney will be from 1-2 pm Thursday, March 14th, 2024 at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home.601 Indiana Street, Lawrence, KS 66044. Burial will be in Pleasant Hill Cemetery. Memorial Contributions may be made to the Mesothelioma Applied Research Foundation in the care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. P.O box 1260, Lawrence, KS 66044.

Elizabeth Thomas Lichtwardt

Elizabeth Lichtwardt passed in her sleep on March 2, 2024, at Presbyterian Manor in Lawrence, KS, where she had lived and received excellent care for almost 5 years.

Elizabeth (Betty) Ann Thomas was born on June 14, 1927 to Dr. Lyell J. and Ethel Thomas. Betty was a twin, arriving 15 minutes after her brother Richard and joining their older brother Lyell (Tommy) to complete their family. The family lived in Champaign, IL, with summer sojourns to Douglas Lake in Michigan where her father taught at the University of Michigan biological station.

After graduating high school in Champaign, Betty attended MacMurray College for Women for a year, then transferred to Oberlin College in Oberlin, OH, where she received her BA in History in 1949. While at Oberlin, she met her future husband Robert (Bob) Lichtwardt in a field biology course. They married in February 1951 in Champagne. They continued their education, with Betty earning a Master of Science in History and Science from the University of Illinois in 1953. After Robert earned his  Ph.D. in 1954, he was awarded a post-doctoral research grant. Betty learned Portuguese and accompanied him as his research assistant first to Panama, where they lived on the nature preserve on Barro Colorado Island in the Panama Canal, then they traveled extensively throughout Brazil, all on a budget of $10 a day. She sent regular typewritten letters home describing their adventures, which were later collected by Bob into a book for distribution to family members.

Upon their return, they moved to Ames, IA, where Robert held a post-doc position at the University of Iowa and Betty took a position as a laboratory technician studying house fly genetics. She developed a strain of house flies which proved resistant to DDT, and identified the location of the mutation in the DNA. She co-published a scientific paper on the inbreeding of house flies. While in Ames, they attended the Unitarian Church and Betty joined the League of Women Voters.

They moved to Lawrence, KS, in 1957, where Bob had been offered an assistant professorship at the University of Kansas.  They purchased two parcels of land – 40 wooded acres outside of town for hiking and camping, and a lot inside the city on which to build a future home. They became founding members of the Unitarian Fellowship of Lawrence – now the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Lawrence (UUCL) – and Betty joined the local League of Women Voters. They also bought a small house, where Bob built a laboratory in the garage for Betty to continue her house fly research. She published a second paper, on the DDT-resistant mutation, in 1964.

In 1963-64, they traveled with their two very young children to Hawaii and then Japan for Bob to conduct research. They lived in a traditional Japanese house in a suburb of Tokyo, and Betty immersed herself in learning about various aspects of traditional Japanese culture.

On returning to Lawrence they began designing the house they wanted to build. Betty worked closely with their architect to incorporate many Japanese design elements – and a laboratory. The family moved into their new home in 1968. After the children were older, she again accompanied Bob on several of his extended research trips, to places like Costa Rica and throughout Europe.

In the early 1970s, Betty became very interested in environmental issues and ceased her house fly research in favor of land use issues. She became an expert on urban planning and land use, collecting a large library of books and other resources. For over 40 years, she was an integral part of the League of Women Voters’ very active Land Use Committee, researching and writing letters on behalf of the committee to local planning officials about the impacts, both positive and negative, of many proposed development projects, and was heavily involved in promoting the adoption of sound long-term development policy. She kept meticulous records of every issue that the Land Use Committee addressed with the County, City, and Planning Commissions. Her records have been donated to KU’s Spencer Research Library.

In 2001, Betty and Bob donated a conservation easement on their 40 acres of woodland to the Kansas Land Trust, to become the core of the 100-acre Lawrence Nature Park. That story can be found on YouTube under “Lichtwardt Conservation Story”.

Betty is survived by a daughter, Ruth, Lawrence; a son, Robert, Farmington, NM; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband of 67 years, her parents, and her brothers.

At Betty’s request, there will be no memorial service. A private internment is planned. The family suggests memorials to the UUCL or the League of Women Voters Lawrence-Douglas County, sent in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, P.O. Box 1260, Lawrence, KS 66044.

Tiffany Marie Miller

Tiffany Marie Miller, age 35, of Lawrence died Tuesday, February 27, 2024, in her home after a very long battle with multiple medical issues. She was born April 18, 1988, in Lawrence. Tiffany graduated from Lawrence High School in 2007.

Tiffany loved everybody, and everyone who knew her loved her.

Tiffany’s parents, Mike and Brenda, survives the home. Other survivors include her sister, Crystal Miller, her grandfather, Ronald Miller, her grandmother, Lily Davis, as well as multiple aunts, uncles, and cousins.

She is preceded in death by her brother, Steven Miller, her grandfather, Ralph Davis, and her grandmother, Janlee Miller. Tiffany will be cremated and no services will be held.

Barbara Jean Reeves

Barbara Jean Reeves peacefully went home to her Lord and Savior on February 24, 2024. She was residing at Nottingham Nursing and Rehab in Olathe, KS at the time of her death. Nottingham staff lovingly cared for her over a year and a half.

Barbara J. Herbel was born on March 15, 1941, to Carl and Elsie Herbel on the family homestead in Lucas, KS. She was raised with two brothers, Norman and Clayton.

Barbara had fond memories of her education starting in a one-room school house. She graduated in 1959 from Lucas High School. Barbara then put herself through Brown Mackie Business School in Salina, KS. During this time, she met her life-long best friend, Nancy Pierce DiMatteo.

She then met her husband, Amon Reeves, at Schilling Air Force Base in Salina, KS. He was a Mississippi boy stationed there and she was working in a Classified section of the base. They were married on December 1, 1963, in Lucas, KS. They were blessed with two daughters, Kimberly and Kristine.

Barbara worked tirelessly to help support her family. In addition to working on the family farm, Barbara proceeded to work in the Clerk of the Russell County District Court office for many years.

She was preceded in death by her husband of 40 years, parents and brothers.

She is survived by her daughters and her beloved grandchildren. Kim Miller (Patrick Miller) of Great Bend, KS. Granddaughters Lauren and Abigail Miller. Kris Manning (Patrick Manning) of Lawrence, KS and Grandchildren Spencer and Amy Manning.

Barbara’s priorities in life were simple; faith and family. She was a Prayer Warrior and led the family with her strong faith. Barbara faced many challenges in her life but never lost her faith in the Lord. Nothing brought her more joy than her 4 grandchildren. She was a lover of KU basketball, never missing a game until the very end — Rock Chalk! We will miss her sense of humor — she taught us to laugh even during the hardest of times. She loved history, playing cards and learning. She was so very proud that her entire family chose to pursue higher education. Let her dedication to faith and loving others serve as a guide for all to emulate.

Service will be Saturday, March 9 th at 11 a.m. at The Lucas Community Church- 322 N Main St., Lucas, KS, 67648. Burial will be in Lucas Cemetery.

The family suggests memorials to Lucas Community Church or Nottingham Nursing and Rehab, sent in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. P.O. Box 1260, Lawrence, KS 66044.

Ashley Dawn Holder

Ashley Dawn Holder, 38,  of Lawrence, KS, passed away February 21, 2024, at her home.

She was born January 23, 1986 in Lawrence, KS. She was the daughter of Richard and Judy (Hattabaugh) Holder and the youngest of 4 children.

Ashley graduated from Lawrence High School in 2004. She went on to become a CNA, CMA and later became the Transportation Coordinator for Tonganoxie Terrace, in Tonganoxie, KS.  It was here that she found a deep love for caring for others, especially the elderly population. She loved her job and was an  example of “you can do anything you put your mind to.” She was 5 feet tall and drove her nursing home bus with ease, always ensuring her residents arrived at their much needed appointments.

Ashley was known for having a huge heart for everyone. She was selfless, always putting others above herself. She had the ability to see the best in people.  Ashley had a bright personality, was the life of the party and known for being fun. She was always happy and had an infectious smile that would light up any room.  She loved the Jayhawks, Royals and KC Chiefs. She was always up for a good watch party, arriving decked out in all her fan gear, and let’s not forget her red lipstick. Ashley often babysat for her nephews and other young family members, she was also a great dog sitter. She was always willing to help out where needed.  She had a love for shopping and loved to give, always putting great thought into the gifts she gave. She was a wonderful daughter, sister, niece, aunt, and last, but not least, friend.  She loved to talk, and was always a listening ear. Ashley had a profound love for animals. While she didn’t have children of her own, she considered her two dogs her “fur babies” and spoiled them with love. Ashley loved a good day at the pool or beach, soaking up the sunshine, spending time with her sisters or friends.

Ashley is survived by her parents, Richard and Judy Holder, of Lawrence, sister, Jennifer Edwards (David), of Lawrence,  sister, Melissa Saline (Clint), of Tecumseh, and brother, Jim Holder, of Lawrence.

Other survivors include five nephews, Josh, Nick, Weston, Wyatt and Walker, one niece, Sophia, and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.  She is also survived by her fur babies, Bella and Miles.

Ashley was predeceased by maternal grandparents, Otis and Alma (Poynter)  Hattabaugh, paternal grandparents,  George and Betty (Merchant) Holder, and nephew, Bradley.

Friends and loved ones will gather on Monday, March 4, 2024, from 10-11 AM at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. The funeral will directly follow at 11 AM.

Private Interment will take place at Clinton Cemetery at a later date.

The Family suggests memorials be sent to Douglas County Humane Society or St. Jude’s, sent in care of the funeral home.